《人間萬事》表現 Behaviour

各位讀者，大家吉祥！
Greeting everyone!

平常我們都會注意看別人的表現，例如出外旅行時，看服務生的表現，決定可以給他多少小費；在家庭裡，看兒女的表現如何，可以給他多少零用錢。甚至官場中，升官易位，要先看他的表現如何？所以世間上沒有白吃的午餐，沒有白得的功名富貴，一切都要靠自己的表現。人要如何表現呢？

Usually we will take notice of other people behaviour. Example to look at their service of their behaviour to decide whether can pay how many tips when travelling, and also can give how much money to look at their children behaviour in their family, even being rose as officer in officialdom, first have to look at their behaviour? In this world, everything is depending to our behaviour. There is no wealth without hard work. How people to behave?

一、用工作表現活力：每個人都有生命，有生命就有活力！你的活力展現在那裡呢？活力不能用於酒家舞廳，不能用於吃喝玩樂，活力要表現在工作上。一般的員工表現良好，月薪待 遇會提升，年終獎金會增加。工作的表現，這是每一個人服務的基本態度，尤其現在這一個工業的時代，一切講究表現。你在工作上表現勤勞，工作有卓越的成果； 你的工作表現出色，對人、對社會都有益，則其他一切就都好說了。

1. Use to work to behave our life: Everyone have life. Where has your life develop? Life not only disco in bar or having fun in playing, eating and drinks, life has to express in working. Some of the workers behave very well, what their salaries have increase and more awards in the end of the year. Work behaviour is the basic attitude for everyone to service, especially now industry era is being particular about to behaviour. You express work hard and outstanding achievements, and behave good benefit to other people and society, everything will be going fine.

二、用內涵表現閱讀：我們和一個初識的人交談，感覺這個人內涵深厚，就知道他必定飽讀詩書，否則不會有那麼大的修養內涵。有句諺語說：「只要一開口，就知有沒有。」所以一個人的態度、言辭，都是內涵的表現。你可以用內涵表現你是一個飽學之士，用內涵表現你豐富的知識，表現你是學者專家，表現你和普通人不一樣，這都得看你的內涵表現了。

2. Use to intension to behave reading: When we talk to the new acquaintance, we can know their intension and this person must have read a lot of books, otherwise will not have a great self-cultivation of intension. Some of the verse says: “Only to speak out will know how many content you have”. The person attitude or language is depending to the intention behaviour. You can use to intension to behave you are an erudite person, full of knowledge, you are an expert scholar, you different from ordinary people, this will depend your intension behaviour.

三、用公益表現愛心：每個人都希望別人看自己是個慈悲人、是個有愛心的人，但是慈悲愛心，怎麼讓人知道呢？只有在公益上面表現了。地方上的修橋鋪路，我有力量參加一份；社會上的鰥寡孤獨急待救濟，我有結餘，捐助一些。我們看到台灣每遇風災、水災、震災，都有許多慈善人士，做各種捐獻。甚至於國際間的一些苦難，許多愛心人士也都伸出援手，參與公益，這就能被社會大眾稱許為愛心人士了。

3. Use to public welfare to behave affection mind: Everyone hope they are compassion and affection mind person, but how to let other people know they are? The only is behaved in public welfare. I have an ability to repaid the bridge and road in places, give relief urgently to those who have no kith and kin cannot support themselves in society, I have a surplus to donate some. When met the disaster caused by strong winds, floods and earthquake in Taiwan, we have seen much beneficence doing donation. Even in international have some sufferings to have give a hand by many others affection mind person to participate the public welfare. This can be called the affection mind person by the society.

四、用行動表現誠意：我們經常聽到有人說：我是誠心誠意的，請你要相信我！其實下面 更重要的是，你有沒有誠心誠意，應該用行動來表現！一個孝子，必定有許多孝行表現，才能讓人稱他為孝子；一個幹員，必定有許多建樹，許多表現，才能贏得一 句：他很能幹！空話人人會說，實際的行動成果，才是重要的事實。

4. Use to act to behave sincerity: We always hear people say: I am sincerity, please believe me! Actually most important is you have or not sincerity must use to act to express! A son in mourning will have a lot of mourning acts to express so can be called a son of mourning by other people. A great worker will have many expressions so can win a word: He can do it! Empty word everyone can say, the achievement of reality act is most important of fact.

五、用配合表現合作：有人說「我會和你合作！」這就要看接下來的配合表現 了。現在的工作，大部分都講究團隊精神。宋楚瑜先生過去在台灣省政府做得有聲有色，他們的口號就是「我們省府團隊」；馬英九先生現在當選總統，他們的某些 人也認為「我們是新國民黨團隊」。我們看到一些企業家賺取名利，必定是有許多人相互配合。用配合才能表現合作的誠意，所以你要與人合作，先要養成配合的觀念和態度。
5. Use to co-operate to behave collaboration: Some people say “I will co-operate with you!” This has look at their behaviour after their co-operation. Now a part of them to be particular about a team spirit in working. In the past, the Taiwan government Song, Chu-yu made a great impression, the slogan is “We province government team”, now Ma, Yin-jiu had chosen as president, some of them thought “We are new Nationalist Party”. We have seen some of the entrepreneur gain fame and wealth. Many people have co-operated with each other to behave collaboration sincerity, so first cultivate the co-operate of the concept and attitude.